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With us turning 30 this year, also marks the 24th year of our friendship.
It has always been a part of our bucket list to travel abroad before we reach 30. Amongst the “brus”, as we call one another, only Annalyn has the chance to go out of the country for several times already with her family.
It was Joan’s and my first time to travel a foreign land and SG is our first destination.
Sharing with you our Singapore Adventure- The first destination on our road to big Three Zero!
Traveling is one of my hobbies. It gives me a bizarre experience, a feeling of independence and a chance to appreciate world and its beauty.
When I’m not travelling, I love spending time with my friends. Being with them makes me feel happy, at peace and our time together could take us down memory lane. – remembering everything that we went through as kids, as teeners, asstudents, being adults, and for Joan, Motherhood.
I recently got the chance to hit two birds In one stone – an out of town vacation with two of my treasured girlfriends, Annalyn and Joan.
I practically grew up with these ladies, along with other childhood friends. 10 years of being classmates, a lifetime of being friends, and now, travel buddies. What else could I ask for ?
In an ordinary blog, I would probably be sharing with you my travel itinerary, budget breakdown and practical tips on exploring Bohol island, but now, I will give you a snap shot of my treasured moments with my girlfriends of 24 years at the beautiful island of Bohol.
This is just a start of our travels together.
The next time I reminish with them, this travel is surely a part of of wonderful memories that we will always go back to.
Traveling is one of my favorite things in life.
Not only do I get to see beautiful scenery and visit top tourists destinations in the country, I also get to learn every provinces or regions’ culture.
I enjoyed every steps of my travel, from booking a flight, to going through all travel blogs for suggestions , to learning about my destinations geography and culture. During my travels, I get to live life fully! ( At least, that’s what I thought)
Due to important things that I have to apportion my budget to, I mellowed down on my traveling in 2013.
Instead of booking flights to different places within the country, I settled for short trips with cheaper expense.
One short trip brought me to a very special place. A place beyond compare: A trip to ANAWIM, a home for the aged in Rodriguez Rizal.
Seeing Lolo’s and Lola’s (old man and old lady ) at ANAWIM and hearing their stories set my heart to bleed specially when I found out that some of them were abandoned by their own family, yet, I am happy to see the positivity in them.
At the mini program held at the ANAWIM compound, our dear oldies showed off their talents in dancing and singing.
I felt proud that I get to witness how Lolos and Lola’s wowed the visitors.
I also thought of what their families, the family that abandoned some of them was missing out.
They didn’t get to cheer Lolo Rod in his Boogie and Cha-cha moves. Lola Ana’s family didn’t see how graceful she was at the dance floor, or how Lolo Steve serenaded the crowd. Lolo’s grand children or Lolas’ kids didn’t get to push their wheel chairs while wandering around, talking about anything under the sun. I know these old buddies miss them so much.
Despite what these oldies have been going through, they still manage to be happy in a community that they belong. They maybe away from their own families but ANAWIM tries so hard to give them care and comfort that of a family.
The entire experience changed my perspective in life.
I valued my own folks more than ever. I value life in general.
What seem to be a short trip to ANAWIM paved the way to my lifetime journey. A Journey to a meaningful life!
Thank You Tracy Fordan for the invite!
(**** names are intentionally changed to protect the oldies’ identity)
This is the transcript of an article that made it to the IM Q3 Newsletter!
A team without a leader is like a ship without a captain. Just like a ship, without a great captain, the team will sink. A team lead makes or breaks the team for it’s the TL who oversees performance of the entire group. Many call themselves a leader but only a few embody “leadership” in its truest, deepest meaning. For me, leadership is the art of motivating a group of people to act towards achieving a common goal and my Team Lead is one of the few.
The first time I got to talk to her was two years ago when she had a one-on-one talk with me as a newbie to the call center team. She had my trust in an instant because she made me feel welcome and she let me voice out my expectations from her, from the team, and from the program itself. In return, she also pointed out hers. This alone was a sign that she was willing to listen to a subordinate like me. Her being open to suggestions and feedback and her flexibility have impressed me the most. Not to mention her fair treatment of everyone in a team. She set rules agreed upon by the entire team and she imposes these rules no matter the person involved. This is apparent in simple attendance or stats issues.
We have been under her leadership for a couple of years now, and we are witnesses to how she constantly exerts effort to improve her craft. Just like us, she does not rest on her laurels, too. She also goes out of her way to study the process and even asks clarifications. She has visions not just for herself but for the entire team. This is obvious with how she encourages the entire team to excel in everything that we do in order to get qualified in any career opportunities within the company.
Furthermore, she goes out of her way to ensure that her associates who show potential get support and additional trainings that they need to prepare them in stepping up to the plate. She does this by devoting hours of her Saturday mornings conducting learning sessions for some reps; she teaches a group of rep from the team about management skills and coaching techniques to name a few.
Juggling her time between motherhood and leadership, she aces both fields and that makes her exceptional. At work, she manages the call center team so well, making sure that a day-to-day service level is met. Back home, she never misses any single milestone in her kids’ lives, be it at school or simple things at home, and she proudly shares them with the team. She isn’t perfect, just as the team she leads has imperfections too, but everybody strives to excel because she never fails to inspire and motivate.
She is Josephine “Jolan” Regaspi, CS-Call center team lead, a friend, an adviser and a protector. And yes, in her own quiet and simple ways, she rocks!
After the Monster Yolanda washed –off a big part of the Visayas area, a number of comments, ideas and arguments sprouted at the social media sites, some are good, and others need be ignored.
Be it on Twitter or Facebook, netizens would freely post how they feel about what happened. From having their families directly affected, to the sharing news clips to update everybody about the recent tragedy or even bashing the government for the efforts that it extends to those affected areas.
We have realized, we can do better than ranting online.
As almost all companies do in famine such as this, which for some reason, normally happen s when Holiday season is approaching, the company I’m working at has decided to cancel the company-wide Christmas party to donate the fund to Tacloban, the hardest- hit area. Our Team has also given away a portion of our team fund and just settled for a simple yet meaningful Christmas party. All in the name of Bayanihan!
We could have settled for that, just donate money and that’s it, we can have our normal lives again, we have already extended help anyways.
But as everybody calls for help, specially our brothers and sisters in the Visayas, our hearts would not just settle for something less. We know we could give more. More than the monetary help that we could provide, we know that there are departments or sectors that need our services.
Gawad Kalinga is one of them.
As soon as we have collected a pretty good amount of money and goods from our friends at work, we headed to Gawad Kalinga command center in FTI Taguig to volunteer our services.
What we did? We helped bag thousands of “family packs” for Tacloban and Samar. My friend Toni helped carry , yes , he carried sacks of rice.
I am not writing because I wanna brag about the good things that I have personally done, but I am sharing how proud I am of the Filipino Spirit as apparent in the relief operations. In there, you would see that no matter where one from, regardless of one’s status in the society, the love for our countrymen binds everyone.
I also am mostly proud with how my friends Jolan and Toni have selflessly devoted their time for the relief efforts.
To Gawad Kalinga Team that consistently extends help regardless of the weather, to everybody who in their own little ways, found time to help and to the typhoon survivors themselves, after a few weeks of exerting effort to get our lives back to normal, we are slowly seeing the light.
Indeed, no amount of typhoon can bring the Filipino Spirit down.
Wedge; glass shoes that of Princess Cinderella’s; flats; doll shoes; topsiders; slippers…..name them all, and find them all in one great place: Liliw, Laguna.
About 3 and a half hours bus travel to south of Manila, lays a place that showcases one of the real Pinoy Prides: Locally-made with world-class quality shoes!
Going to Liliw , Laguna is one thing that I really enjoy. Not only do I get to see two of my most favourite girls in the world, NC and little Robyn, but I also get to do every girl’s favourite past time: Shopping—Shoe shopping, to be exact!
I personally admire how Liliw shoemakers keep on innovating and improving their styles in order to keep up with the latest trend without compromising the quality and durability of every footwear they create.
Here are some of my Liliw-made shoes:
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending… Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage… Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals. Look for someone complimentary…
Dating is fun… Even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes… When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says… You should know that: You’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he’ll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he’s not the only one. They’re all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts.